Description:

In today’s episode, Tim talks about self-deception and how people get into it. There are situations that we face that may cause us to slide into self-deception. But there are things that we can do to get out of it and avoid getting into this trap again and this is what Tim is sharing in this podcast episode.

So tune in now as he teaches us through different great stories and experiences.

Quotes:

“To be able to see it, you have to believe it first.”

“You don’t create change by blaming people, by yelling at them or by trying to shame them into changing because it doesn’t work.”

“What we need to focus on is what we have control over and that’s how we show up.”

“You can’t have mesmerizing influence if you walk around making other people feel wrong.”

“Your goal is not to keep people out of their box; your goal is to keep out of yours.”

Mentions:

https://www.facebook.com/TimShurr/ 

https://mesmerizingleadership.com/ 

Leadership and Self-deception, by The Arbinger Group

Show Notes:

(01:49) The story about resistance in the midst of the breakthrough

(10:48) One can be right and people can be resistant anyway

(11:05) Self-deception is everywhere

(12:00) Trusting your inner voice to do the right thing

(13:31) Tim’s story of his self-deception

(16:54) Entering the box

(18:50) How to get out of the box

(22:33) Recognizing that you’ve entered the box

(23:31) Tim’s experience with someone getting stuck in the box

(28:20) Creating win-win situations

(28:46) Summary  

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